BOYCOTT 498A ONCE AND FOR ALL
The movement is about ten years old now. People know about the misuse of laws, the bias towards women. Political parties know about the men's rights movement, about the misuse of laws, then what is the reason for no change? Lets have a look at that. We all know what is Section 498A and in spite of any training and lectures we develop our own ways of fighting it. But we are not able to get rid of 498A from our lives, we remain with it mentally, emotionally. This is a general feeling in men "I am a victim but other man's case is genuine ", we judge men around us "कुछ तो किया होगा ".
It is disturbing to see some self styled Men's Rights Activists (MRAs) bringing back their 498A wives and some marrying 498A women, also dating 498A women. More disturbing is to see them still part of the movement. Nobody showed them EXIT from the movement. If we are running a movement for men and their welfare then any kind of support to such unscrupulous women should be avoided. I understand that we develop personal relations in the movement and we dont want to spoil that relation. So, that means personal relations are more important than the movement?
If we keep on doing this then this vicious circle will never end. A woman will leave her husband, file cases on him and will be supported by one of us by marrying her. It be an ongoing process and no men will be happy ever. I remember the dialogue of movie "Pyar ka panchnama" where hero says, "ek ladki ko chor do, 10 khade honge line mein". Yes it was hilarious, comedy but there is a point in it. A very brutal truth is, that there are men to support, pamper women and the vicious circle continues like this. I am not talking about the men walking on roads, when they do it, it is expected of them but when a so called MRA does it, it is shocking.
Because we are few in numbers so need support of any Tom , Dick and Harry? That is alright get support but do not support a 498A woman or a DV woman in any way. More than 70,000 married men commit suicide every year and it does not matter to anybody. This figure will increase if we do not stop compromising. Time has come to take a stand , forget everything when it is question of a 498a woman . If you calculate like a common man what is the difference between you and other men ?
This sounds like a non cooperation movement? Yes it is. It should be a non cooperation movement, "So you are a 498A woman or a DV woman no support from us." Reject a girl by saying this and see the difference.
How can we expect a movement to succeed if we keep on supporting men who married a 498A woman or brought their 498A wives back? When I entered this movement I heard fellow fighters saying "boycott 498A women " and I followed it .
*You want to get married it is alright but never marry a DV, 498A woman.
*Never marry in a family where DV, 498A was filed.
*Do not attend a marriage where a 498A, DV woman is bride.
* Never date a DV ,498A woman.
* Never ever take back a DV, 498A wife back.
* Boycott men who married a DV, 498A women.
*Boycott men who bring back a DV, 498A wives.
*Do not give your daughters to the family where a woman has filed DV, 498A.
Men are anyways dying and nobody cares about them so die like a revolutionist. Be a Bhagat Singh for the movement and say a big NO to 498a, DV or any other biased law so that future generations of men can live a better life. Think of a life apart from women, think about yourself. When things are not normal in the country how can you behave normal? Boycott the biased laws once for all.