koshish jaari hai !

I dont know why iam remembering Rakhi so much today , may be because that was the last rakhi we celebrated together ( me and Anurag ) . In year 2010 , I was in last month of my second pregnancy . Doctor advised me not to travel at this time . So i called Anurag and said i shall not be able to come for Rakhi . He said "who told you to come , i will come deedz . " I advised him not to come as trains are  packed at the time of festivals . He said he will come by bus , i tried to stop him as bus journey is very hectic . I said let it be next year dont trouble yourself , he said there is no next year . How right he was .            He travelled in a volvo bus from Lucknow to Noida , it took him 22 hours . He could not make it on Rakhi day but he reached . He was so tired that he said want to sleep first then tie rakhi . I said o k , he slept in my lap only  . My little son laughed on his mamu . When he woke up  he said," lets play Rakhi Rakhi now." i tied Rakhi and he

I participated in a women liar forum . The chief guest was a well known woman judge of supreme court and other members were a former soliciter general of India , a Padma vibhushan kathak dancer ,a former attorney general , a a chairperson of some orgainsation and a treasurer . Topic, the famous and the favorite " strengthening law to fight crime against women . "                                                  Honourable solicitor general started , here i would like to mention he was a magician of words and spoke with chewed words. He discussed child trafficking (only girl child) gave an example of a girl how she was rescued and sent back to the parents who sold her . He said when a woman is kicked out of house where she should go ? Nari niketan and working women hostel are also not safe. I really wanted to ask where should a man go when he is kicked out of his own house ? Another example by Ex Soliciter general that there is place called Apna Ghar in Rohtak , a woman runs

My entry gave her an uncomfortable feeling , i was late but truth makes a mark. ON SHOOT : Marital rape is not needed i said because it is already covered in domestic violence , she deined it .  I said DV act sec3(ii) Covers it all. My question who will decide who raped whom in a closed bedroom , she said court . My answer bedroom will be taken into court then where will the institution of marriage go , no answer. She is not botherd about marriage .       She says so many women die every year my answer more than 60,000 married men commit suicide , she says iam talking about farmers suicides !!!! She says there are very less cases of misuse , my answer 98% are false . OFF SHOOT : She said my data of male suicide is wrong , i said i got this data from NCRB , she says it is not relaible . I asked her politely what you bring is reliable and whatever i bring is unreliable , no answer. She says you know women like you ( she didnt know that she is talking to an MRA) are burnt for dowry