koshish jaari hai !

  We often see the news of suicides by glamorous women and we wonder what went wrong in their lives . We feel that their lives are some cindrella story then why these lives are wasted just like that ?        What these women wanted which they don’t get ? Did you ever noticed the way girls are pampered in the family ? Parents of a girl will make a comfortable environment  around them . They will be given extra care , comfort , safety for being a girl child . Not only family , the government , the world around us is pampering them . She   lives her life like a princess and then she will start dreaming like a princess . She will think of a lavish lifestyle , designer outfits , expensive make up and beauty treatments . But life is not perfect  . People have to struggle hard , take up responsibilities to live . A girl is not used to all this . She will search a man to do all this for her . The man in her life has to pamper her becaus...

There are many jokes related to insurance. One of them is how it makes you millionaire after death. We take it as a joke till it comes on us. No insurance is subject of solicitation we all know this. But insurance companies cry this day and night. You do not even know that this man can have insurance but every man in this world has a price tag on him. And if the man is dead his price doubles. Just like an elephant   “ Mara hua aadmi sawa laakh ka”.     Accidents are the best death for a man because it increases his value. If you do not know that accidental death brings you money don’t worry, somewhere in the world an insurance agent is keeping an eye on you. This agent is not heartless; he/she will wait till the funeral is over and then will come and tell you the benefits of the recent death in the family. It doesn’t matter whether you want that money or not , it doesn’t matter whether you are in need of that money or not , a case will be filed from  yo...

  It was a bright day when i entered the studio of a news channel . There was still time left for the live discussion . We were waiting in guest room , the coordinator introduced me with the feminist who was a part of the discussion . All these feminists have this same arrogant look on their face. This woman was a part of a very reputed national political party which always talk about "Indian culture ".          I could notice that this woman was wearing  expensive designer clothes and was continuously talking about her love for such clothes. Iam a kind of person who doesn't think much about clothes and she was a typical woman who was brand conscious . Her clothes , make up , hair ,shoes were all perfect . She told me she has a hair dresser . I noticed her manicured hands when she was speaking with gestures with the use of her hands . Then i noticed mine who were dry because of washing clothes before coming to the studio.   In conversation i to...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpLOireVg4I      Look at this advertisement and see the tagline "such a boy thing " , "boys ki life maestro ki life easy ". Do they ever think before making such nonsense ? No they don't because this is what is spread everywhere . Boy's life easy , girl's life hard . When they show a woman driving driving scooty the tagline is " why should boys have all the fun" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_R5D4cPmC0  . What does it mean that men are having fun all the time and women have a hard time . Lets look at what an average man and woman do in India , how they grow up ?               A boy when he is in growing age is burdened with responsibilities . He has no other choice but to earn because there is a family who is dependent on him . On the other hand, a girl has a choice either to live as working woman or as homemaker in later on life . If she is a working woman...

                                                http://www.deccanchronicle.com/131003/lifestyle- relationship/article/every-9-minutes-married-man-commits-suicide-india http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cT6n9D0PZY A country got independence , people were very happy . They were showing happiness in various ways .This man John was walking on road happily shaking his hands in air . Many people saw John walking like this , many got hurt by his hands . But nobody said anything as there was celebration going on . After few minutes a man who got hurt on his nose by John's hand caught John . John  looked surprisingly at this man and asked ," what is it , why are you holding my hand ."         ...

                                          " अंधकार को क्यों धिक्कारें नन्हा सा इक दीप जलाएं  " Yes I know people are depressed because one more anti male law is passed . One question arises in my mind didn't we know that it will pass ? Why we had so many expectations from our so called law makers ? We all know how biased they are towards women and how the laws are passed in India .                                   But in all these chaos there are some very positive things happening around us , amazed, have a look with me . We all know that "Monsoon session " of parliament was crucial to us . So , like every se...

मैं जानती हूँ और मौतों की तरह  लोग यह मौत भी  भूल जायेंगे। भूल जायेंगे कि तुम कितने मजबूर थे की तुमको आत्महत्या करनी पड़ी. काफी बहाने ढूंढें जायेंगे तुम्हारी मौत के भी , तुम अवसाद में थे , तुम कायर थे लड़ नहीं सके।  मगर हम सब जानते हैं कितना मुश्किल है, तब लड़ना जब पूरा सिस्टम आपने खिलाफ हो।   कोई आपकी बात न सुने , कोई आपको न समझे , कुछ कुतर्क देकर आपको नकार दिया जाये। सब इस सिस्टम का सामना कर सके यह ज़रूरी तो नहीं। कुछ अतिसंवेदनशील भी होते हैं उनके लिए छोटी सी बात भी  बड़ा सबब बन जाती है, फिर उसपर कुछ भी तर्क आप दे लें बेकार है.                                                                   जब हम  मिथ्या आरोपों का सामना करते हैं तो हमारे सामने कई "क्यों " खड़े जाते हैं जिनका जवाब हमारे पास नहीं होता। और इस क्यों से एक लम्बा युद्ध शुरू होता है. हम सचिन की मजबूरी का अंद...