koshish jaari hai !

The movement is about ten years old now. People know about the misuse of laws, the bias towards women. Political parties know about the men's rights movement, about the misuse of laws, then what is the reason for no change? Lets have a look at that. We all know what is Section 498A and in spite of any training and lectures we develop our own ways of fighting it. But we are not able to get rid of 498A from our lives, we remain with it mentally, emotionally. This is a general feeling in men "I am a victim but other man's case is genuine ", we judge men around us "कुछ तो किया होगा ". It is disturbing to see some self styled Men's Rights Activists (MRAs) bringing back their 498A wives and some marrying 498A women, also dating 498A women. More disturbing is to see them still part of the movement. Nobody showed them EXIT from the movement. If we are running a movement for men and their welfare then any kind of support to such unscrupulous women should b...

Action movies are integral part of Hindi cinema . We love to see one hero fighting with eight to ten people . Generally, he is the man with his own principles and rules . But his principles include respect for women . Remember, Bullet Raja where he says, "Hum auraton ki izzat karte hain ". This hero or anti hero whatever we call him , whenever he is violent , it is to save women , children or helpless people around him . Now women empowerment enters here too . When women took weapon in their hands and they started abusing , killing , beating men . They cannot protect , they cannot save , they are violent because of their own reasons . This violence is not for any good , it is for their selfish motives .                            They are not taught to respect men ever ,so they will not . They have weapons in their hands without training or responsibility so ,they will only kill and beat . How can Alcoholism be tr...

                                                              27 FEb , 2012 ( continued from http://jyoti-koshishjaarihai.blogspot.in/2014/02/the-unseen-untold-part-2.html) It was a regular morning for her(sister of A ). Her husband went to play a cricket match so she had to manage the kids alone that day . She dropped her son to bus stand and came back to her house . Little girl is still sleeping so she has time to see the newspaper . She opened the newspaper , her phone rang its a number who is this why calling early morning , “hello hi didi” , “oh hi its you  how are you , It this is A ‘s best friend, “didi where is A  ", "Oh he must have reached Lucknow by now” . “Accha ,who was with him”  “ P and S ” , “ hmm o k” . “Why are you asking all this” , “nothing didi his phone is not reachable”. “oh must be ou...

                                        26 Feb   continued from http://jyoti-koshishjaarihai.blogspot.in/2014/02/the-unseen-untold.html                          Next day sister is eagerly waiting for A , he comes along with P .  Sister’s baby girl started crying for feed .   A wanted to take her in his lap but the baby refused and started crying loudly . She went to another room to feed her and listened to the discussion . She wants to talk to her brother so she calls his name and said come here and talk to me . He comes in the other room n turns his head away as sister is feeding the little baby . Sister lovingly put her hand in his hairs and asked how is he , he is said he is fine and don’t worry he will fix everything .      He said , “you and jiju will be out of this” , sister...

                                                 21 FEB 2012  7.30 p.m. A is sitting in a meeting and his phone rang ,“Why didi is calling me at this hour iam sitting in this ,meeting how to take her call , oh may be she took it seriously when yesterday i got angry on her that she does not talk to me and talk to mummy for hours” .     Phone cut, but it rang again , “ oho didi , what is this if iam not picking up that means iam busy” . Phone again cut , a message is there, “ bhai please call police is here” . “What police at didi’s place why” so many thoughts came to his mind in fraction of seconds . He took excuse in the meeting and called , “hello, yeah didi tell me” , there is voice of a man from other side , “ Hey A is it you ,where are you , come to M eerut immediately , there is a case against you by your wife” . He said, “ yeah ...

  We often see the news of suicides by glamorous women and we wonder what went wrong in their lives . We feel that their lives are some cindrella story then why these lives are wasted just like that ?        What these women wanted which they don’t get ? Did you ever noticed the way girls are pampered in the family ? Parents of a girl will make a comfortable environment  around them . They will be given extra care , comfort , safety for being a girl child . Not only family , the government , the world around us is pampering them . She   lives her life like a princess and then she will start dreaming like a princess . She will think of a lavish lifestyle , designer outfits , expensive make up and beauty treatments . But life is not perfect  . People have to struggle hard , take up responsibilities to live . A girl is not used to all this . She will search a man to do all this for her . The man in her life has to pamper her becaus...

There are many jokes related to insurance. One of them is how it makes you millionaire after death. We take it as a joke till it comes on us. No insurance is subject of solicitation we all know this. But insurance companies cry this day and night. You do not even know that this man can have insurance but every man in this world has a price tag on him. And if the man is dead his price doubles. Just like an elephant   “ Mara hua aadmi sawa laakh ka”.     Accidents are the best death for a man because it increases his value. If you do not know that accidental death brings you money don’t worry, somewhere in the world an insurance agent is keeping an eye on you. This agent is not heartless; he/she will wait till the funeral is over and then will come and tell you the benefits of the recent death in the family. It doesn’t matter whether you want that money or not , it doesn’t matter whether you are in need of that money or not , a case will be filed from  yo...