koshish jaari hai !

Sneha Mitra was annoyed by her husband's voice . He was waking her up as he was leaving for office in a few minutes . Sneha said coldly "listen iam not in habit of waking up so early in the morning ."              "Early its nine o clock darling , lets have a cup of tea together." her husband said . "Please you have it and leave i will have whenever i ll want" were Sneha's words .        "What the hell is this " husband muttered and left for the office . When he returned house was messed up and sneha was talking to some friend on phone . This became the routine and arguments started between them . One day Sneha was watching TV where a serial said its not easy to be housewife , she sighed and agreed . She realised how harassed she is , waking up early morning making tea doing all house hold chores , why should she do it ? She is not a maid , while husband enjoys out.    ...

 This is capt saurabh kalia , who fought kargil war in 1999 and laid his life for his country . In a war you always assume people will die so it is not such a big deal . Surprisingly men do the dying part but as we assume that men are born to protect and die , so this does not really surprise us .                                    War deaths are no surprise but if the death is brutal and inhuman then? This brave soldier was badly treated by Pakistani troops . He was a 22 year old brave soldier who was encirled by pakistani rangers when ran out of ammunition. Capt kalia and five of his men were brutally tortured by pakistanis . Postmortem reports revealed that Pakistan army had tortured their prisoners by burning their bodies with cigarettes, piercing ear-drums with h...

We all heard a story in which a saint tranforms a mouse into a lion . The lion attacked that saint itself one day and the saint had to say" punah mushakah bhav" means may you become a mouse agian . Spiderman says with great powers comes great responsibility . If you dont know about responsibilities then forget the power , power is not for you .           Delhi rape case is a henious crime , it should be condemned . But the point is there are laws for rape , sexual assault , domestic violence , sexual haressment at workplace etc. If a woman reports a crime there are laws to take action . But if the laws are misused and the allegation is prooved wrong by a woman there is no law to punish that woman. This means any woman can use these law for extortion . You give me this or be ready for a case . In 80s, dowry law was changed after similar protests and the result is before all of us . And the present protests will have a long term effect w...

The day a boy is born in the family , he is seen as the responsible person . It is correct that everybody wants a male child but the reason behind it is 'everyone wants a person who will bear the responsibilties. In bringing up a girl we always tell her boys are bad , be cautious . Misandry starts at a very begining level. If a girl does not take up a carrer , she marries and becomes responsibility of a man , if a boy does not take up a carrer he is finished and so is the family .                                                              The girl who herself is nothing becomes the helpless , nagging wife . She tells the boy about the lavi...

The other day i was watching a news item on TV about the kargil war martyrs , especially Saurabh Kalia . He was tortured and murdered by pakistani troops but Pakistan never accepted it . His family is since then trying in international court of justice and UN to make pakistan accept the it. Being an ex Air force personnel's daughter i feel associated with the defence family. Then i thought these are war martyres who fight on borders .                            We have other martyres too who are fighting for a normal family life . A fight which is going on in the country in uncountable homes . What was their fault , they married like any other normal persons , tried to live a good family life . But one allegation made their lives a battlefield, where they are fighting everyday . All day and all night they think how to come out of the lies against them . The...

One day my seven year old asked me mumma "whats an FIR ", i was surprised by his question . I asked him who told him this . He told me he was  playin CID with other kids so someone pointed police came to our place and we are facing a case . May be some neighbour have talked about it in her house and kid has overheard her . My son continued mumma inpector daya will come to investigate (popular inspector daya of CID series) . Then i had to explain to him about the fake case and all, which he was not satisfied . We didnt do anything then why case, he was curous . It was difficult to tell a seven year old that there are that type of people too . He further said mamu was so nice , when will he come . My son was very close to Anurag . In fact his marriage was a long party for him . I didnt wake him up when Anurag's body was brought . He still feels some day mamu will come back . He says everyone comes back in his stories and cartoons .        ...

It was a regular evening and like any other homemaker i was waiting for my husband to come back from office . He told me , he will be late . It was 7.30 p.m. and the door bell rang . It is annoying for any mother who made lot of efforts to make her baby sleep .Door bell didn't stop , i opened the door and to my surprise there was police at my door . Several thoughts came in my mind in fraction of seconds . The cop , two constables and one lady constable . Like any other law abiding citizen i got scared . The cop started shouting so you tortured your bhabhi(brother's wife) for dowry . It took me a minute to recall that i have a bhabhi(brother's wife )who left my brother some two years ago after a month of marriage.                            I asked the Cop to come inside the house and talk . he took my phone. He came in but didn't stop s...