koshish jaari hai !

We all heard a story in which a saint tranforms a mouse into a lion . The lion attacked that saint itself one day and the saint had to say" punah mushakah bhav" means may you become a mouse agian . Spiderman says with great powers comes great responsibility . If you dont know about responsibilities then forget the power , power is not for you .           Delhi rape case is a henious crime , it should be condemned . But the point is there are laws for rape , sexual assault , domestic violence , sexual haressment at workplace etc. If a woman reports a crime there are laws to take action . But if the laws are misused and the allegation is prooved wrong by a woman there is no law to punish that woman. This means any woman can use these law for extortion . You give me this or be ready for a case . In 80s, dowry law was changed after similar protests and the result is before all of us . And the present protests will have a long term effect w...

The day a boy is born in the family , he is seen as the responsible person . It is correct that everybody wants a male child but the reason behind it is 'everyone wants a person who will bear the responsibilties. In bringing up a girl we always tell her boys are bad , be cautious . Misandry starts at a very begining level. If a girl does not take up a carrer , she marries and becomes responsibility of a man , if a boy does not take up a carrer he is finished and so is the family .                                                              The girl who herself is nothing becomes the helpless , nagging wife . She tells the boy about the lavi...

The other day i was watching a news item on TV about the kargil war martyrs , especially Saurabh Kalia . He was tortured and murdered by pakistani troops but Pakistan never accepted it . His family is since then trying in international court of justice and UN to make pakistan accept the it. Being an ex Air force personnel's daughter i feel associated with the defence family. Then i thought these are war martyres who fight on borders .                            We have other martyres too who are fighting for a normal family life . A fight which is going on in the country in uncountable homes . What was their fault , they married like any other normal persons , tried to live a good family life . But one allegation made their lives a battlefield, where they are fighting everyday . All day and all night they think how to come out of the lies against them . The...

One day my seven year old asked me mumma "whats an FIR ", i was surprised by his question . I asked him who told him this . He told me he was  playin CID with other kids so someone pointed police came to our place and we are facing a case . May be some neighbour have talked about it in her house and kid has overheard her . My son continued mumma inpector daya will come to investigate (popular inspector daya of CID series) . Then i had to explain to him about the fake case and all, which he was not satisfied . We didnt do anything then why case, he was curous . It was difficult to tell a seven year old that there are that type of people too . He further said mamu was so nice , when will he come . My son was very close to Anurag . In fact his marriage was a long party for him . I didnt wake him up when Anurag's body was brought . He still feels some day mamu will come back . He says everyone comes back in his stories and cartoons .        ...

It was a regular evening and like any other homemaker i was waiting for my husband to come back from office . He told me , he will be late . It was 7.30 p.m. and the door bell rang . It is annoying for any mother who made lot of efforts to make her baby sleep .Door bell didn't stop , i opened the door and to my surprise there was police at my door . Several thoughts came in my mind in fraction of seconds . The cop , two constables and one lady constable . Like any other law abiding citizen i got scared . The cop started shouting so you tortured your bhabhi(brother's wife) for dowry . It took me a minute to recall that i have a bhabhi(brother's wife )who left my brother some two years ago after a month of marriage.                            I asked the Cop to come inside the house and talk . he took my phone. He came in but didn't stop s...

This particular article of delhi times in HT  is again an example of misandry. It shows that women gets less chance to speak when they are with men . How is it possible when  it is scientifically prooved fact that women are more verbal than men . It is a clear attempt to create hatred towards men . They have given the example of corporate world which is totally wrong , if there is point in someone's suggestion how does it matter whether the person is a girl or boy . And if a person talks useless he or she will be stopped or people will get irritated by them , where is the question of gender arises here?                    To tell the world that men does not allow women to speak is disgusting . Actually its other way round women never allow men to speak . Ever notice when there are women in majority , they behave in a very peculiar way where as if men are in majority they behave in prote...

Whatever i was writing for the last some time is about an imaginative world which actually does not exist. Because for the last two years of my life i m watching men suffering badly . There is so much misandry happening in the society that i feel the equality word should have another meaning now in the dictionary . It should be strength for women only.                            Take any law it favours women only , there is no protection for man . A woman can blame a man just like that , be it physical or mental . All the burden comes on man to proove himself innocent.